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Students in Distress But Not in Any Immediate Danger
Signs and Symptoms of a Student in Distress But Not in Any
Immediate Danger:*
- Excessive procrastination and very poorly prepared work,
especially if this is inconsistent with previous work.
- Infrequent class or lab attendance with little or no work
completed.
- Excessive avoidance of their research and of meetings with
advisors.
- Dependency; e.g., the student who hangs around you, makes
excessive appointments to see you during office hours or needs
excessive amounts of direction or guidance.
- Inability to make decisions despite your repeated attempts to
clarify and encourage.
- Repeated requests for special consideration; e.g., extensions for
examinations or not making progress on their research.
- Listlessness, lack of energy, or frequently falling asleep in class
or lab.
- Normal emotions that are displayed to an extreme degree or for a
prolonged period of time; e.g., fearfulness, tearfulness,
nervousness.
- Marked changes in personality.
- Dramatic weight loss or weight gain.
- Behavior that regularly interferes with the decorum or effective
management of your class, lab, or office.
- Use of alcohol or other drugs that leads to academic impairment or
represents a change in use for the student; e.g., binge use, coming
to class intoxicated or with a hangover.
*Not all of these symptoms need be present to indicate a
student needs help. It is also true that telling the
difference between an individual's personality style and
symptoms of a problem can be difficult. The "symptoms"
described above are behaviors that lead to problems for
the individual and as such, are reasons for concern. If
you are unsure as to whether someone's behavior is
something to be concerned about, please call the
Counseling Center and we can help you determine if
something should be done.
Guidelines for Intracting With Students in Distress But
Not in Any Immedlate Danger
What To Do:
- Talk to the student in private.
- Listen carefully.
- Show concern and interest.
- Repeat back the essence of what the student has told you.
- Avoid criticizing or sounding judgmental.
- Consider the Counseling Center as a resource and discuss a
referral with the student.
- If the student resists help and you are worried, call the Counseling
Center, Ext. 8331 and ask for me, Dr. Kevin Austin, the Director
of the Counseling Services, or for any other psychologist and
discuss your concerns.
- Involve yourself only as far as you feel comfortable. Extending
oneself can be a gratifying experience when kept within realistic
limits.
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